How to get rid of negative emotions for mental well-being

Vivre Contributor

7/17/20232 min read

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buddha statue

Integrating the following principles taken from the teachings of Lord Buddha and the Hindu text Bhagavad Gita into your daily life gradually can lead to a greater sense of emotional well-being and inner harmony. Remember though, these teachings require consistent practice and patience.

From Buddhism:

  1. Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment, including your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations. By practicing mindfulness, you develop the ability to observe your negative emotions as they arise, without getting caught up in them or reacting impulsively. This non-judgmental awareness allows you to gain insight into the nature of your emotions and develop a greater sense of control over them.

  2. Non-attachment: Buddhism teaches that attachment and clinging to things, including negative emotions, lead to suffering. By recognizing that all things are impermanent, including emotions, you can cultivate a mindset of non-attachment. Instead of suppressing or resisting negative emotions, you acknowledge their presence and allow them to naturally arise and pass away. This practice helps you let go of their hold over you and prevents them from overwhelming your well-being.

  3. Compassion: Compassion plays a vital role in transforming negative emotions. Buddhism emphasizes the cultivation of compassion towards oneself and others. When faced with negative emotions, practicing self-compassion helps you acknowledge your suffering with kindness and understanding. Similarly, extending compassion to others allows you to develop empathy and forgiveness, reducing the likelihood of negative emotions arising in your interactions.

From the Bhagavad Gita:

  1. Self-awareness: The Bhagavad Gita encourages self-inquiry and the realization of one's true Self beyond the temporary experiences of emotions. By recognizing that you are not your emotions but an eternal soul, you gain a broader perspective. This understanding helps you detach from negative emotions and prevents them from defining your sense of identity or affecting your overall well-being.

  2. Detachment: The Bhagavad Gita promotes performing one's duties without attachment to the results. Negative emotions often arise when our desires or expectations are not met. By letting go of attachment to specific outcomes and focusing on performing your responsibilities to the best of your ability, you cultivate a sense of equanimity. This detachment reduces the impact of negative emotions and allows you to remain balanced amidst challenging situations.

  3. Yoga and Meditation: The Bhagavad Gita advocates the practice of yoga, which encompasses various techniques, including physical postures (asanas), breath control (pranayama), and meditation. Through regular yoga and meditation practice, you calm the mind, develop inner peace, and gain control over negative emotions. These practices help you observe and understand your emotions, fostering a sense of tranquility and allowing you to respond to situations with greater clarity and wisdom.

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